Sunday, December 29, 2013

Help Us Spread the Word with Our New Poster!

Transfamily of Erie has a new printable poster you can use to help spread awareness of our group. Post it at your school, workplace, church or anywhere else you think people who could benefit from our group might see it. (Be sure to get permission first, of course.)

The poster is in black and white so you won't have to worry about expensive color copies, though if you really want the poster to stand out, feel free to use color paper.

Transfamily of Erie is all-volunteer run and we need your help so that we can reach as many people as possible.

You can download the poster here.


Thanks to everyone who helped make this month's meeting one of the best we've ever had.

Special thanks to those of you were joining us for the first time. It takes courage to open yourself up to other people and you should be proud of the steps you've taken.

Our next meeting is on January 25 and we hope to see you all there. And if you know someone who might benefit from our group, please bring them along.

Monday, December 9, 2013

Reminder: Our Next Meeting Is on Saturday, December 28 from 2 to 5pm

Beginning with this meeting, we are going to try to be a little bit more structured than we have been in the past.

From approximately 2 to 2:30, we will have introductions where we will go around the room and everyone will say their name and preferred gender pronoun (PGP). (Ex. "Hello, my name is Jane and I use the pronouns she and her." or "Hello, I'm Bill and I go by he and him." or "Hello, my name is Leslie and I prefer the gender-neutral pronouns zie and hir.") If they so choose, attendants may also share a little bit about themselves.

(NOTE: It is very important to us that everyone attending a Transfamily meeting is referred to by their chosen name and pronoun, regardless of what they look like or any other factor. Please always exercise the utmost care in respecting others' identities.)

From 2:30 to 4, we will have open discussion on any topic our members need to talk about. For example, if you have been problems with your family and want to talk about it or wish to inquire about what resources others may know about, this would be the perfect time to do so. If someone is in crisis or has something urgent they need to talk about, this part of the meeting may be extended.

From 4 to 5, we will have a more organized discussion on a given topic. This month's topic will be "What would you like to see from Transfamily in 2014?" You may also contribute to this discussion in the comments section of this post or email us with your ideas at transfamilyerie[at]gmail.com.

Meetings are always completely free and refreshments are provided

As always, our meeting will be held at the Mental Health Association of Northwest PA building (1101 Peach St. Erie, PA, 16501). When you arrive, ring the buzzer and someone will com down to let you in.

We hope to see you there.

UPDATE: Our clothing swap won't begin until next month. Sorry.

Wednesday, December 4, 2013

Welcome


Transfamily of Erie is a support group that sets out to provide a safe environment for all transgender, gender non-conforming, gender-questioning and intersex people. Attendance is welcome to all regardless of where they fall on the gender spectrum. Whether you are a trans man, trans woman, non-binary or genderqueer individual, crossdresser or someone just looking for a little information, Transfamily hopes to provide a judgment-free environment where you  can openly express yourself in whatever way feels right to you. Transfamily also welcomes people of all races, ages, religions, and sexualities* to the meeting.

We recognize that many people may not be comfortable with their status as a trans* individual being made public and exercise the greatest discretion toward the privacy of our attendants.

Topics regularly discussed in meeting include coming out, dealing with friends and family, handling depression, financial barriers to transition, discrimination, activism, and identity.

Transfamily also hosts a clothing swap where you can find free gender-affirming clothing in many sizes. Participants are encouraged to contribute items to the swap but there is no requirement for participation. Feel free to take what you want with no obligation.

Transfamily meetings are held from 2–5pm on the 4th Saturday of each month at Mental Health Association of Northwest PA (1101 Peach St. Erie, PA, 16501).

Meetings are always completely free and refreshments are provided. Attendants are encouraged to bring something to share with the group but this is not required.

If you have any questions or concerns, please contact us at transfamilyerie@gmail.com.

*NOTE: Transfamily is not a dating service. If you are cisgender person looking to date a trans* person, we thank you to respect our attendants privacy by looking elsewhere for your romantic or sexual partners.